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Most eulogies that work follow the same five movements: an opening image, who you are to the person, a story, what they leave behind, and a goodbye. Fill in each box in a few sentences; your draft comes together below, with its length.
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Build your eulogy outline in five steps
Fill in the five boxes: your draft comes together below, with its length. Everything stays in your browser.
Tips for each step
- Opening. Start with an image everyone in the room can see: "If you ever visited Ruth, you know the kitchen table." Avoid "We are gathered here today"; everyone knows why they are there.
- Who you are. Your name and your relationship, in a sentence. If you speak for the family, say so.
- A story. One specific moment, with a place and a detail. A story shows who they were; a list of qualities only tells.
- What they leave behind. Connect the story to something that lives on: a habit the grandchildren copy, a recipe, a way of treating people.
- Goodbye. Speak to them directly, briefly. Then thank the people who came if you speak for the family.
Prefer a written template? Use the fill-in-the-blank eulogy template. When your draft is ready, check its length with the eulogy length calculator, and see complete examples in eulogy examples.
Common questions
What if I cannot think of a story?
Ask someone who knew them: "What is one thing they did that nobody else would have done?" Or start with an ordinary habit, the chair they always sat in, the phrase they always used. Specific ordinary details often work better than big events.
Can I use this outline for a celebration of life?
Yes. The structure is the same; the tone can be lighter, with more stories and room for a gentle laugh. The goodbye can become a toast or a thank-you.